Life is categorized by Events and Choices, even the smallest choice can cause a major event. But fate can't be controlled just by your choices but others too. Your choice can be crushed by another choice. Here are some examples: If you write a book it was your choice to write a book but people have the choice to buy it or not, if you want to be a singer and you made an EP but its the peoples choice if they listen to it or not, and etc. So you see now that you can't take full control of your destiny but you can try to keep it on track, if someone pushes you off its YOUR choice if you wanna get back on or not. So the next time you say its your fault and someone else was doing a bad thing, like if you got into an accident and your light was green but that drunk driver hit you its not your fault its the guy who decided to drive while drunk, or in the anime "Durarara" when the main character wants to help that girl and then events happen and he ends up taking her to a safe place, you remember right? Of course you remember cuz the next thing that happened was that she left him standing there, even though all those events happened in the end it was her choice to continue it or not. You can make the best choices in the entire world but when it comes down to it someone else has the choice to let it go on or not.
"Life is a Game of Chance and You are One of the Players in the Game."
by Yuuki Bonilla
Paramore: Playing God
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDy2wCQYSrU
